"Happiness" Now Becomes a Question
A mystery you always ask and that changes to be overthinking:
1. How to be happy?
2. How to calm down?
3. How to stay joyful?
4. How to stay blissful?
And so on, and so on…
How long are you going to keep asking? And whom are you asking for the answer?
Can you now just try changing these questions into answers?
It’s simple, don’t you think? Let’s try…
Remove the “How to” and, of course, your favorite question mark “?”.
I’m sure it’ll feel tough but now, let’s write the new version:
1. Be happy
2. Remain calm
3. Stay joyful
4. Stay blissful
Looks simple, right?
I know, I know… you’re checking the grammar and looking for a full stop (.).
But in reality, you won’t need those to answer yourself!!!
You can always tell your mind, your heart just an answer!
No more questions. No more searching. Just a simple, powerful answer for every situation.
Let life ask you a question, you just give your answer.
A beautiful answer to your mind.
A perfect answer to yourself.
Your Mind Learns From You. You Must Be Its Best Tutor!
But instead, you keep asking mysterious questions to that innocent mind.
Is it fair? Of course not!!!
Your job, your responsibility is to answer, find a solution.
And if not, simply reply:
“Sorry, my little buddy! This question is out of syllabus.
Let’s not waste our time on it. Let’s move to the next chapter.”
How to calm down? Not so Easy yet?
Because Boom!!! Your mind is so innocent, it will now give you lots of new questions, one after another.
So, is that a problem?
Not at all. It has the right to ask you, and even sometimes suggest this and that.
Now what’s next?
You must remain calm!!! (I hope I got the grammar right 😄)
You’re now on Command Mode.
A real mentor, a legendary warrior, a perfect leader, a World Cup-winning captain!!!
You’re free to take decisions. You can simply listen to the questions; no need to answer them all.
No need to solve everything.
Just accept the fact and tell your mind:
“I’m sorry, we have to close this chapter now. It’s OK if we give up. We have a lot more to explore!”
No One in This World Has the Right to Control Your Mind!
You are the sole owner of yourself.
Don’t go for a partnership when it comes to your mind!
Don’t let anyone control your thoughts or emotions.
You are a free bird, meant to fly above the clouds.
Don’t let anyone sit on your back!
It’s your empire, and only yours.
No matter what happens,
No matter who insulted you,
No matter if you were blamed,
No matter if you were called a loser,
No matter if you don’t live a luxury life,
No matter what situation is;
Still, you can softly say to yourself, to your mind:
“We will try! But we’ll never let these things control us.”
I hope you can understand this and don’t forget to teach your innocent buddy “Mind” about this newly added chapter.
It might complain again, give you lots of questions and suggestions.
But be strong and remind it:
“Listen, my innocent friend… we’ve already suffered by giving our control to others.
Now, let’s rule the empire.”
From My Side...
I hope your next questions will be:
1. Why can’t I feel nervous?
2. Why am I always calm?
3. Why do bad situations no longer break me?
And for sure; don’t look for answers!!!
Just celebrate!!!
You are a fighter, you are trying your best. I understand your sleepless night. I understand your tears. I know you are selfless; thought of others. But now thinking of yourself will complete you. Still you can do best for others. No matter what response you get, you don’t need a Appreciation anymore.
